Sexual Wellness

“You have and still remain a guiding light, a profound love - across dimensions and illusions of time and space - and a beacon of remembering 'what we are.' In me, You are a Calling Home.”

Mari Abraham

“You opened up a new doorway for me, about how I could be, what my life, my world and my community could look like. You are so powerful, so special - you show me what it means to be a teacher: fallible, full of flaws, and full of beauty, truth and power.”

Kai Cheng Thom

“You are a fiercely loving powerhouse of change and remembering - of the body, stories and erotic wisdom.”

Solanna Anderson

“It is especially important to me personally that you are holding a torch for erotic wellbeing and authentic sexual expression. It is so rare to know an elder who carries wisdom and hope to heal one of humanity's deepest shadows.”

Nijlan Rosalia Bastet

“I couldn't be more grateful for the grace, kindness, love, acceptance and empowerment that I've been shown and taught. I am left speechless when I contemplate the life I've lived before this work, and the massive change and transformation I've found as a result of engaging with this paradigm of relationship with my self and other selves. So thank you, from the depths of my soul, for being you, and sharing you.”

David M

I worked and taught in the realm of sexual wellness for two decades. My teachings are available in low-cost online programs, as well as books and videos.

The Art and Science of Sacred Intimacy

In this in-depth program, participants learn and practice body-based techniques for healing, pleasure and empowerment, with careful attention to the weave of sex and soul. There are many benefits, and precautions necessary, in the practice of Sacred Intimacy. Sacred Intimacy is about unwinding sexual trauma, challenging the gender binary, exploring the intersections of science, sex and spirit, and creating erotic community.

Somatic Sex Educator Professional Training

Being an innovator and a rebel can be deeply satisfying and financially rewarding. Working as a somatic sex educator, you can make a real difference in people’s lives. You can have this tremendously satisfying experience every day, and also be able to earn a good living as a sought-after practitioner. There is so much sexual wounding in our world, and there are not nearly enough trained people available to address this.

People are seeking sex educators who are willing to work with embodied practices that address trauma, support healing, and expand what is possible for them sexually. But they need to know that they can trust you! Our extensive training, professional associations, and clear guidelines for ethical practice make trust possible. In the Somatic Sex Educator professional training, I have designed a lot of teaching that is ongoing, with wonderful younger teachers and an ever-evolving curriculum.

Learn Erotic Massage

When we touch, we touch people’s entire history, their deepest wounds, their secret identity, their healing powers and their most profound capacity for joy. Touch that is meant to offer pleasure can slip unwittingly into hurt and harm. In the program Learn Erotic Massage I describe how to offer sensual and erotic massage, with competent care and transforming love.