About Caffyn

“You have and still remain a guiding light, a profound love - across dimensions and illusions of time and space - and a beacon of remembering 'what we are.' In me, You are a Calling Home.”

Mari Abraham

“You opened up a new doorway for me, about how I could be, what my life, my world and my community could look like. You are so powerful, so special - you show me what it means to be a teacher: fallible, full of flaws, and full of beauty, truth and power.”

Kai Cheng Thom

“You are a fiercely loving powerhouse of change and remembering - of the body, stories and erotic wisdom.”

Solanna Anderson

“It is especially important to me personally that you are holding a torch for erotic wellbeing and authentic sexual expression. It is so rare to know an elder who carries wisdom and hope to heal one of humanity's deepest shadows.”

Nijlan Rosalia Bastet

“I couldn't be more grateful for the grace, kindness, love, acceptance and empowerment that I've been shown and taught. I am left speechless when I contemplate the life I've lived before this work, and the massive change and transformation I've found as a result of engaging with this paradigm of relationship with my self and other selves. So thank you, from the depths of my soul, for being you, and sharing you.”

David M

Caffyn Jesse has researched and written on psychedelic medicine, queer belonging, sexological bodywork, neurobiology, sexual healing, trauma, orgasm coaching and many other topics. Books include Love and Death in a Queer Universe, Science for Sexual Happiness, Intimacy Educator: Teaching with Touch, Elements of Intimacy and Pelvic Pain Clinic.

Caffyn is a queer elder and a tireless advocate of embodied love. They are exploring intersections between psychedelic medicine, sexual wellness, transformative justice and queer ecology.

Caffyn taught for many years in the Sexological Bodywork and Somatic Sex Education professional trainings, as well as offering a weeklong training for Intimacy Educators, plus occasional workshops on topics ranging from pelvic pain to sex in long-term relationships. She offered trauma training for professionals who touch. Encouraging neuroplastic change to support sexual healing and expanded pleasure, unwinding sexual trauma, exploring the intersection of sex and spirit, creating erotic community are all core to their work and play.

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Caffyn offers online programs on Erotic Massage and Sacred Intimacy

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