Gender is Not a Prison—It’s Prismatic

Why do we inhabit gender as if it were a prison, when it is so prismatic— mischievous, mysterious, and multifaceted? Gender is singular, binary, and plural. It unfolds in time. gender is composed and imposed. Gender is an artesian force of ongoing emergence. Why would we settle for less?

Your Gender is Unique to You

In many other teachings on sex and intimacy, there are a host of rules for how men and women should behave and feel, based on a binary understanding of gender. My queer soul rebelled. In all my years of sacred intimacy practice, and in my teaching, I’ve tried to welcome each person in their gender complexity. In spaces where gender complexity is welcome, it can delight us, and inform our play.