Sacred Intimacy

Caffyn Jesse has worked and taught in the realm of sacred intimacy and sexual wellness for two decades. They continue to teach online, as well as offering free writings, books and videos – with a unique weave of science, sex and soul.


The Art and Science of Sacred Intimacy

In this in-depth program, participants can earn a Certificate in Intimacy Education. You will learn and practice body-based techniques for healing, pleasure and empowerment. Sacred Intimacy is about unwinding sexual trauma, challenging the gender binary, exploring the intersections of science, sex and spirit, and creating erotic community.


Learn Erotic Massage

When we touch, we touch people’s entire history, their deepest wounds, their secret identity, their healing powers and their most profound capacity for joy. Touch that is meant to offer pleasure can slip unwittingly into hurt and harm. In the program “Learn Erotic Massage” Caffyn describes how to offer sensual and erotic massage, with competent care and transforming love.

More Online Learning with Caffyn

More of Caffyn’s writings on sexual wellness and sacred intimacy.

Somatic Sex Educator Professional Training

In the Somatic Sex Educator professional training, Caffyn has designed a lot of teaching that is ongoing, with wonderful younger teachers and an ever-evolving curriculum.

“You have and still remain a guiding light, a profound love - across dimensions and illusions of time and space - and a beacon of remembering 'what we are.' In me, You are a Calling Home.”
Mari Abraham
“You opened up a new doorway for me, about how I could be, what my life, my world and my community could look like. You are so powerful, so special - you show me what it means to be a teacher: fallible, full of flaws, and full of beauty, truth and power.”
Kai Cheng Thom
“You are a fiercely loving powerhouse of change and remembering - of the body, stories and erotic wisdom.”
Solanna Anderson
“It is especially important to me personally that you are holding a torch for erotic wellbeing and authentic sexual expression. It is so rare to know an elder who carries wisdom and hope to heal one of humanity's deepest shadows.”
Nijlan Rosalia Bastet
“I couldn't be more grateful for the grace, kindness, love, acceptance and empowerment that I've been shown and taught. I am left speechless when I contemplate the life I've lived before this work, and the massive change and transformation I've found as a result of engaging with this paradigm of relationship with my self and other selves. So thank you, from the depths of my soul, for being you, and sharing you.”
David M